The Internal Revenue Service (IRS) changed how it handles alimony at the start of the year. Paying spouses can no longer take tax deductions for their payments. Recipient husbands and wives must now claim any monies that they receive as income. These changes have made it increasingly difficult for spouses to reach settlements in their divorces. This has motivated many couples to pursue different tax strategies in hopes of quickly settling their cases.
The fall season is only a few weeks away. Most Fort Myers kids have already returned to school or will be doing so within the next week. It's soon after this occurs that divorce season begins.
Divorce mediation has gained in popularity in recent years. Some analysts suggest that many divorcing couples used to only think that they could resolve their differences in a courtroom. They argue that it's only in the past few years that the idea of using alternative dispute resolution to help couples and parents more amicably resolve their differences has surged in popularity.
Couples that are in the process of getting divorced often fight about their property and kids. It's no wonder that these two topics seem to be the most litigated as well.
It doesn't matter whether you and your ex have a contested divorce or an amicable one. It's bound to be difficult for both of you to cope with your divorce. Starting your life anew is never fun for anyone. If you have kids or significant assets, then the process is likely even harder for you than it is for others. There are some steps you can take to keep conflict between the two of you to a minimum though.
Many spouses stay in their dysfunctional marriages because they fear not being able to find love again or for financial reasons. Others delay the inevitable simply because they fear becoming involved in a long, drawn-out court battle over property division, child custody and alimony. Couples who pursue mediation often avoid fights. Some exes even rekindle their friendship with their ex once the process ends.
If you ask most couples why they chose to settle their divorces via mediation, they'll often give three different reasons why they did. They're likely to tell you that they heard that mediation is far less costly than litigation. They may tell you that they expected to get a more equitable settlement or to keep drama at bay by pursuing mediation. While some may have had positive outcomes in their cases, not everyone does.
When many couples decide to divorce, one thing that gives them the most anxiety is envisioning fighting about sharing custody of the kids or finances. If you go into divorce negotiations with realistic expectations and a game plan in mind, then it's possible to resolve your differences in a relatively amicable fashion.
Contrary to popular belief, not all spouses that decide to divorce actually hate each other. Many simply don't feel that same spark that they once did for one another and just get divorced to give themselves something to live for once again. In those cases, couples may simply want to work out a settlement regarding their finances or custody via mediation as opposed to pursuing contentious litigation.
Once spouses wrap their minds around pulling the plug on their marriages, they often ask how quickly that they can finalize their divorce in their state. There's no one simple answer to this question.