It not unusual for men to have children later in life or to have them in an unmarried relationship. People who have gone through one divorce may be reluctant to marry a second time. However, that does not mean that men do not want to have children with their new partner.
When it comes time to put all of your personal possessions on the table, figure out how much they're worth and split them up, most people associate it with death -- because that is what happens during the probate process after we die. Unfortunately, though, in some circumstances we have to endure this kind of financial examination while we're still alive -- and it happens during divorce.