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Dos and don’ts during a divorce

On Behalf of | Jul 13, 2021 | Blog |

There is no question that a divorce is painful, stressful and complicated. There are many decisions you must make, and these decisions are with someone you no longer want to spend your life with. This can lead to anger and frustration, but there are several dos and don’ts you need to remember when you are undergoing a divorce in Florida.

Do continue to communicate

Although this may be the hardest thing to do, keeping the lines of communication open during a divorce can make the entire process go much more smoothly. This is especially true if you have children together. It may be tempting to shut down and try to ignore your soon-to-be ex-spouse, but this is the time when open communication is critical. Not only will it help you move on, protect your rights in the divorce and make things easier on the children, but it will reduce delays in a process that is already painful.

Don’t set unreasonable expectations

One common mistake made in a divorce is setting unreasonable expectations. You will not win every battle, and it is likely that decisions will be made that neither you or your ex-spouse are entirely happy with. The best way to keep your expectations reasonable is to not only talk to your attorney but also to listen when they give you advice. An attorney has been through the process before and may help guide you away from unreasonable expectations.

Do ask questions

Your attorney is there to help you through what may be your first time in court. Between appointments, write down questions you may have so that you don’t forget them in your attorney’s office.

Don’t discuss the case with your children

Avoid discussing the details of the divorce with your children. This includes talking about the case when you think they are not listening, in another room or sleeping. Divorce is extremely stressful for children, and when children are stressed, they tend to be more attentive to adult conversations. It is fine to answer questions if they have them, but keep your responses neutral and non-negative, especially when talking about their other parent.

Divorce is life-changing, but it doesn’t have to lead to a prolonged court battle. Following these simple rules may help your divorce go smoothly with less animosity and fewer delays.

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