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How can I negotiate child custody with my ex-spouse?

On Behalf of | Dec 20, 2015 | Child Custody |

When children are involved in a divorce action, it is a natural reaction to want what is best for them. Sometimes, that means putting your wishes wants and desires second. It is best to try and work out the child custody issue between the two of you through your attorneys.

If you can negotiate and come to an agreement without involving the court system in Florida, the outcome can be so much better for everyone. Of course, the overriding thought must be for the children who are involved.

Generally speaking, it is an ideal situation for the child to have interaction with both parents. The child needs to have happiness, security, good mental health and emotional development. Having both parents in on these activities can make a huge difference to a child’s well being.

It is difficult to have to deal with an ex-spouse because you have divorced this person and yet you still have this shared responsibility of rearing a child to know right from wrong. If you have a conflict, it is a good idea to have a relationship with your ex-spouse that will make it easier to come to a meeting of the minds over child custody issues that may come up. You know that what you don’t decide on between yourselves, the court will make for you. Simply put, it is so important to have a lasting relationship with your ex-spouse for your children’s sake.

If you have questions about what your custody arrangement entails, you may want to explore your options. Doing your research in the Florida statutes is a good first step. Calling in a legal professional is another step that you may need to take to ensure that your child keeps you in his or her life.

Source: FindLaw, “Focusing on the “best interests” of the child,” accessed Dec. 20, 2015


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