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Divorce mediation may be key to settling your case

Divorce mediation has gained in popularity in recent years. Some analysts suggest that many divorcing couples used to only think that they could resolve their differences in a courtroom. They argue that it's only in the past few years that the idea of using alternative dispute resolution to help couples and parents more amicably resolve their differences has surged in popularity.

Divorce negotiations don't have to get heated

It doesn't matter whether you and your ex have a contested divorce or an amicable one. It's bound to be difficult for both of you to cope with your divorce. Starting your life anew is never fun for anyone. If you have kids or significant assets, then the process is likely even harder for you than it is for others. There are some steps you can take to keep conflict between the two of you to a minimum though.

What should I expect by mediating my Florida divorce?

Many spouses stay in their dysfunctional marriages because they fear not being able to find love again or for financial reasons. Others delay the inevitable simply because they fear becoming involved in a long, drawn-out court battle over property division, child custody and alimony. Couples who pursue mediation often avoid fights. Some exes even rekindle their friendship with their ex once the process ends.

Divorce litigation is sometimes better than mediation

If you ask most couples why they chose to settle their divorces via mediation, they'll often give three different reasons why they did. They're likely to tell you that they heard that mediation is far less costly than litigation. They may tell you that they expected to get a more equitable settlement or to keep drama at bay by pursuing mediation. While some may have had positive outcomes in their cases, not everyone does.

What can you do so you and your ex remain friends post-divorce?

When many couples decide to divorce, one thing that gives them the most anxiety is envisioning fighting about sharing custody of the kids or finances. If you go into divorce negotiations with realistic expectations and a game plan in mind, then it's possible to resolve your differences in a relatively amicable fashion.

Mediation isn't an ideal way to resolve every divorce

Contrary to popular belief, not all spouses that decide to divorce actually hate each other. Many simply don't feel that same spark that they once did for one another and just get divorced to give themselves something to live for once again. In those cases, couples may simply want to work out a settlement regarding their finances or custody via mediation as opposed to pursuing contentious litigation.

A collaborative divorce may help couples resolve differences

Although there are some couples who are able to settle their divorces amicably, for others, things have festered far too long for them to be able to do so. Those spouses tend to drag one another in and out of court fighting over just about everything from child custody and support to property division to alimony. Many of them would be better off trying to resolve their differences using collaborative divorce approaches.

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